October 29, 2004
Neither I nor the ex drive, so he moved out of state via Greyhound bus and left a lot of his junk behind. More junk was left on a later visit, while we were still on friendly terms. I've had most of this stuff - mostly books, some clothes and random mementos - for nearly three years now. It's almost too heavy to lift and would cost a lot to ship to where he lives now. Delivery by hand is not something I'd want to do, for various reasons. A bonfire seems wasteful. Selling it is probably illegal, since I don't own it; it was just abandoned with me. (And besides, that seems like a crass, ex-girlfriend-bitch-from-hell thing to do. Although I've half a mind to do so and donate the proceeds to a worthy organization, ameliorating the evil part a little.) Are there any elegant or creative solutions to getting rid of all of this junk? Objective Monkeys with more experience than I, please advise. Thank you.
But I don't think Half Price buys WMDsThat's about what I'm thinking. OK, for more than $1. And anything that I think has particular meaning, like one book that I think belongs to his mom, I can mail. and I might keep this one anthology 'cause it's pretty good. but otherwise. As for his coming here to get it back, and the like - he lives about four hours away now, so distance is prohibitive. It wasn't dangerous-messy, it was psychologically messy. "Oh, you'll ask for me back any day now," "If you'd done what I said everything would have been perfect," "Let me rehash everything that went wrong for the 300th time" sort of thing. I don't think I'm hung up on him too much, but I DO want complete closure, and it is symbolic. Enough already. I mean, seriously. And don't worry about misspelling my SN; it's a misspelling of a misspelling as it is, so someday it will come full circle. :)ofhim...